Are You Surprised?

Are you surprised? It seems like there have been many people surprised by many things of late.  The election surprised quite a few.  How football teams have performed has surprised many.  Many have been surprised by the weather, certain people facing possible legal penalties, and steadily rising prices to name a few. Benjamin Franklin is … Continue reading Are You Surprised?

Cutting Out What Needs to Go

This past weekend I did some yard maintenance – pulling weeds, cutting, weed eating…  My yard was in need, and I was gently reminded that I needed to take care of it.  So, as a man, I attacked it. Cutting the grass gives me a sense of accomplishment.  However, I also noticed that some things … Continue reading Cutting Out What Needs to Go

When Everything Seems to Be Changing

Does everything seem to be changing? The Cooks have faced and are facing many changes of late.  This weekend I had the honor of officiating my niece’s wedding; she is the first of that generation to experience that.  However, my son is also about to be married while also graduating from college and beginning dental … Continue reading When Everything Seems to Be Changing

What Is Strength?

I can say whatever I want, regardless of whom it hurts.  I can force my way on others.  I can use brute force when it feels right.  I do not listen to anyone. Is that it?  Or is that a façade of strength when it is actually foolishness? I do not believe that anyone wants … Continue reading What Is Strength?

Routines That Are Not Routine

I had to start walking, take proper nutrients, and eat correctly to lose the weight.  I had to read and listen to podcasts to learn.  I had to start doing things to learn (and maybe master) those things.  I had to make certain activities a routine part of my life to see change. For many, … Continue reading Routines That Are Not Routine

It’s Not Over Yet?

Boy, oh, boy! The world of 2020 doesn’t look like we thought it would, does it? Rather than this being another one of those random blog posts bemoaning all of the bad we’ve faced… Let me ask you a question (or 3): What are you learning? What are you doing? How are you growing? You … Continue reading It’s Not Over Yet?