It happens. A lot! Someone hurts you whether you realize it or not. A trusted friend seems to turn on you. Things happen that rock your world. You expectations or hopes are not met. And disappointment follows.
We all know that life is full of disappointments. They can be big or small. Most of them go away quickly, but some linger and fester. It is part of life.
We can let the disappointment go, or get frustrated, or become heartbroken, or worse. Truly, the choice is ours.
Typically we face disappointments because we tend to put our confidence in people. We think that we can rely on the good judgment of others. However, each of us knows that we are not perfect and often make mistakes. It is surprising that though we know our own limitations, we do not think about the limitations of others.
So what can we do?
We must put our hope only in God. Consider what Psalm 118:8 tells us: “It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in humanity.” We must love others and foster relationships, but we must also face reality. Only God handles the circumstances of life with true wisdom and concern.
If we can come to grips with this truth, it enables us to realize that disappointments are not final when we allow God to have His proper place in our lives. Actually, though no one wants to be disappointed, it can lead to deeper hope and faith as we see God work through the mess of life. “We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God, who are called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28)
As you have, I have faced my share of disappointment. I also realize that those who disappoint do not always mean to do so.
But I also realize that God cares about me (and you). He has given me strength and hope when I lacked it. He has worked things out for my good even though it may not have been in the time frame I desired. He is faithful, and He will be faithful to you.
Trust Him.
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